- that I want a baby so badly that it kills me because..
yes I do and a statement like that hurts.
- Don't tell me that we are crazy for wanting a baby so badly because..
we are NOT crazy, you just don't appreciate the children you have!!
- Don't tell me that it's not that you don't appreciate your children, but that you just
appreciate your free time more because...
quite frankly I think that's sad.... for your children.
- Don't tell me to appreciate our free time while we have it because...
we've had our free time and at this point in our lives we want to share our time with a
child!!!! I'm sorry that you don't see it that way.
- Don't tell me that you don't understand why we are in such a hurry to have children because..
if 4 years of trying to have a baby is in a hurry...well bite me!!
- Don't tell me that we'll get pregnant after we adopt because...
although it would be nice, it takes away from our adoption NOW, as if getting
pregnant would be somehow nicer, better than adopting now.
- Don't tell me that we can have one of your children..
because quite frankly We would probably do a better job of raising them and if you
tempt me long enough, I will. WE have an approved homestudy, ya know.
Sometimes people just don't get it. Why not try....
"I'm excited for you two...It must be hard, you've been through a lot...It's going to be amazing, I can't wait for you two to be parents....I'm here for you....You're going to love it...."
Okay I'm done with my Sunday rant...it's out, but just a warning.....one day one of these statements is going to make me snap...And I'm so NOT going to be nice about it!!
Sunday, October 08, 2006
Don't tell me...
at 10:29 AM